You only need to make a few tweaks to enjoy a more powerful orgasm. When people are looking to spice up their sex lifethere's one thing that usually comes to mind: throwing out common sex positions in favor of more acrobatic ones. But there's no need to.
Sometimes you want to have sex standing up, other times you want to lie back and let your partner work their magic. On other occasions, you want to try a kinky positionor one that lets your partner go really really deep. Then there are those times when you just want all the control.
By Sabine Walter, Pierre A. When one ventures into sexual activity, it can be daunting to hear about things like the Kama Sutra and tantric sex. The missionary position is no more than the male-superior position; that is, the man on top, the woman on the bottom.
If you're having trouble feeling confident when you're on top during sex, don't sweat it. Here, Layla Martinsexpert extraordinaire and author of Wild Woman in the Bedroomand Antonia Hallsex and relationship expert and author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Lifeshare their best advice for mastering one of of the greatest positions of all time. Your vulva and clitoris are also very accessibleand the vast majority of women find intercourse much more pleasurable if they are also stroking or being stroked in this area," Martin explains. Yes, in theory it makes sense that being on top lets your clit get more stimulation, but if that angle just isn't happening for you, you've got options.
Learning how to have great sex in different variations of the woman-on-top "cowgirl" sex position and ride a man with confidence is surprisingly easy. In fact, knowing how to work it can be your "secret weapon" for both of you to have the best sex ever. The biggest misconception women have when it comes to trying girl-on-top sex positions like the cowgirl is that it requires a lot of skill to pull off properly.
I can only come during sex when I am on top. It took me about 28 years to realize it I just thought I was a woman who could not orgasmbut once I found the right angle and positioning, I realized that cowgirl is the right kind of girl for me. So to me, woman on top sex positions should be where it's at.
After all, sex is about enjoying the body, intimacy, and closeness. Intimacy comes in plenty of forms, including kissing, breast pleasure, oral sex, fantasy, and even anal sex. Read up on oral sex techniques.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off-limits, and all questions remain anonymous.